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The Tooth Fairy

Well, it happened. My oldest started losing his baby teeth and my husband and I started losing our minds that the kids are growing up.

A couple of months ago, the first one started wiggling. As the weeks went on and it became more loose, my 6 year old became more anxious. He often experiences nerves for unknown firsts like this. He was nervous that it would hurt, wondering when it was going to come out, etc. In order to turn his fears to excitement, my husband decided that the tooth fairy would bring our son a special “ticket” for a sleepover at my in-laws. I remember explicitly saying, “Oh is she?! Wow, that’s a pretty cool tooth fairy.” As I was inwardly thinking, “Well there has been neither consultation with the tooth fairy nor my in-laws on this ticket thing!” I will say that this did seem to calm my son’s fears and he thought it would be so awesome to get this “ticket,” which he mentioned repeatedly in the following weeks.

The tooth loosened even more, and one day my son came home from school with a little tooth locket necklace from his teacher. I knew my evening would now be spent on the computer to make sure the tooth fairy could bring him this “ticket.”

A week later, he lost his 2nd tooth and was rewarded with another “ticket,” this time for a trip to the park with his dad to play Pokemon Go. (You see what that tooth fairy did there, turning it back to the dad.)

I’ve decided to allow the tooth fairy to continue bringing “tickets” for teeth. (She also leaves a dollar.) I think it’s something that can grow with my children and can be easily done at the last minute which is in my wheelhouse! If you think the tooth fairy might want to bring your child a “ticket,” too, you can get the PDF, just click the image below!

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The Unfinished Business of Motherhood

I love being a mother. It’s come so naturally to me, and I take a lot of joy and pride in it. I was a decent student, I enjoyed studying French in college and was a better student there than in high school (because it was so costly and I didn’t want to waste money!) and I had wonderful experiences as a preschool teacher, but it was never my life’s passion. I’ve come to know that this was always my path, to mother these three little boys, and this endeavor of mine will never be finished. Which is kind of a hard thing: my task, my goal will never be finished! We rush around in our culture always finishing things, and moving on to something better. In motherhood, though, so many things go unfinished all the time and it can be maddening. There simply aren’t enough hours in the day to “do it all.” We need a mindshift change, not just in the overall picture of our lives, but also in the daily grind.  

The other day I had a funny text conversation with a friend about never finishing things. I told her about a baby blanket that I made three years ago for my cousin’s baby and never sent. THREE YEARS. That’s how long I let this unfinished task fester and give me anxiety. We laughed about it, but I know deep down that leaving these things unfinished does give me anxiety. Is it crippling? No, but it does surface at times of stress when I am trying to accomplish other things. It sneaks in and says, “You are never going to finish all this stuff. Why don’t you just give up like all these other things you never did?” Why do I let these little tasks or projects I meant to do stay in my mind?

Turns out, I’m not alone. Psychology Today has a great article about how our minds can’t stand unfinished business. There is a real thing, you guys, called the “Zeigarnik Effect.” We are more likely to recall the tasks we never finished than the ones we did.

So I’m showing up over here to say I am FINISHED. No more worrying about these little things that never got accomplished (I’m looking at you, quilt fabric I bought for my now 2 year old nephews. I’ve never even made a quilt.)

My plan is this: first, write tasks down more often. Making lists and schedules helps and I always accomplish more if it’s written down. Secondly, I definitely need to set some tasks aside and be realistic about what I can actually accomplish. I’ve started to get better at this. For example, when I first started this blog, I thought I would share some things about motherhood and many recipes and crafts. While I do love to cook and we do art projects often, the time it takes to write up tutorials and take all the photos while you are doing it is just not something I have the ability to do right now. It is more realistic to engage with my children during the day and write about it at night when they are asleep and I don’t want to watch playoff hockey with my husband. The last part of my plan is to really examine whatever unfinished task I am anxious about and decide “Is this worth doing at this point in time? If not, then I can let it go and revoke my commitment to it. If I still want to do it, I need to re-evaluate and make a specific plan for accomplishing it, instead of the same old, same old “when I have some free time” routine.

Good luck in your own endeavors towards accomplishing tasks! I fully realize that I will likely overload myself with tasks and goals again at some point, but my intention is to keep it as realistic as I can and forgive myself when I don’t make the cute party favors I saw online that are going to be thrown away anyways.

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Guide to Quick Kid Costume DIY

Halloween is coming! I love dressing the kids up in fun costumes. (I may also enjoy dressing us all up as a family.) This year I admittedly wasn’t into it. We recently moved and My sewing supplies are completely disorganized. SO we are going with a re-wear for my youngest with an alligator we had and a hand-me-down lion costume for my oldest from my in-laws.

My 3 year old son on the other hand is determined to be a ghost. Everything I could purchase is too scary, so I knew I was going to break down and use the sewing machine. I thought I had a white fleece blanket somewhere in my giant pile of fabrics to be recycled and it was NOWHERE to be found. I moved to Plan B and found the bride of Frankenstein I had made on the fly for myself two years ago. It was an old long sleeve white t shirt with a long strip of fabric attached at the shoulders and two long pieces attached at the back. I basically trimmed it to fit my son, hand stitched a felt face on, and made a VERY fast white hat. DONE. It was seriously a total of 45 minutes to accomplish this and he loves it. Here are my tips for easy ways to throw your own costume together!

  1. Re-use old costumes in a different way (Like I did, cutting up an old costume and adding different elements.)
  2. Think about what everyday items you have on hand that could be used. I’m thinking cotton balls (steam, animal fluff), aluminum foil (candy, robot), plastic bags/newspaper (to stuff and reshape clothing)
  3. Search the house for old clothing that no one is wearing. What can you do with that old pair of pink corduroy pants? (I turned mine into a piglet costume a few years ago for my then 6 month old.)  
  4. What fun costume only requires regular clothing and a headpiece that you could make with hot glue, some felt, and a cheap headband or hat from the dollar store? I’m thinking animals and TV characters.
  5. Hot glue and felt are your friends. I made Tigger and a honey pot one year solely by hot gluing felt onto old clothing. (We had a Winnie the Pooh theme, clearly.)
  6. Hats are unbelievably simple to sew. Cut two pieces from the pattern and run through the sewing machine four times. That’s it! Here is the link for an easy, free, downloadable pattern from Fleece Fun. I made fleece ones last year for my kids Pokémon costumes and yesterday whipped up a white one with scrap pieces of knit and that worked, also! 

Comment with some of your ideas for easy costume DIY! 

Our family as Winnie the Pooh (re-used from my hubby’s childhood), Piglet (made out of old pink corduroy pants), Tigger and the “Hunny” pot made from old shirts, felt, and hot glue. 

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Make it yourself: Toddler Travel Pillow

In anticipation of our road trip to my husband’s family reunion this past weekend, I had decided to add one more little thing to the list of “must complete before Friday.” It’s true: I am insane. To my surprise, it only took about 20 minutes to sew a cozy travel pillow for my toddler. So perhaps I am only partially insane! Additionally, he absolutely loved it and had to use it while he watched Sesame Street. It was great to have in the car for when he fell asleep since it was a long 4 1/2 hours. Some may like the U shaped travel pillows, but I like this one because I wasn’t sure if he would really keep a U shape around his neck. This was easy to slide and re-position to wherever his head lolled after falling asleep.

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To make this little pillow, you need some cozy fabric and fiberfill stuffing. I used some fleece, but any soft fabric would be fine. Cut the fabric to a rectangle 10 inches by 12 inches.

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I went ahead and made a little pattern so that the next time I make one I can pin it and cut it quickly. Once the fabric is cut, fold it in half hot dog style, then pin the right sides together. Sew all three sides, leaving about half of the third side open for stuffing.

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Cut the corners (and any excess fabric because you didn’t have the cuts even like me) and turn right side out. Stuff with the fiberfill to your liking. Fold the edges of the hold in and press lightly. Sew closed with an invisible ladder stitch.

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And there you have it: a little toddler travel pillow! Now if only it were as easy and simple to get your toddler to sleep in the car for most of the trip!

 

 

 

 

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DIY Comforting Heat Pillow

Many years ago, my mom bought a heating pad for my dad at a kiosk at the mall. It was made of blue fabric with stars and moons on it, and was shaped to drape around your shoulders. He warmed it in the microwave and it smelled pretty terrible. However, my dad LOVED it. He would warm it up in the evening when his shoulders were tight or even if just when he was cold. Eventually, the blue pad was either misplaced or fell apart. A couple of years ago, I decided to make him a new one! I followed a tutorial from the blog An Oregon Cottage. It turned out well, he really likes it, and it smells good!

A while back (I honestly cannot remember when) my sister-in-law was talking about some back pain she was having. I asked if she ever used a heating pad, and she told me that she borrowed one from her mom every now and then. I picked out some fabric that I thought she would like and months later I finally made her a heat pillow! If you have aches and pains (and a sewing machine), you should make one, too! I haven’t been sewing for very long and I was able to complete this project easily (once I had some time when the kids were napping and there weren’t piles of dirty dishes/clothes/toys everywhere.) I changed a bit from the original tutorial, since I didn’t love the finishing on the first one.

How to begin:

Cut a pattern from paper of a 12 inch by 20 inch rectangle. Use this to cut out your fabric. You should choose a fabric that is 100% cotton (so it won’t catch fire or anything in the microwave.) Thicker broadcloth and home decor fabrics are best.

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Fold the fabric in half lengthwise with right sides together. Sew together beginning on one of the short sides, putting in a few backstitches to keep it together. Stop a bit before the corner, lift the presser foot up, turn the fabric and continue sewing the long side. Turn the next corner and sew halfway up the short side, then stop, again with a few backstitches.

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Cut the corners off a bit so they won’t make for a bulky corner. Turn right side out. Fill about halfway with flaxseed. (I like flaxseed because it doesn’t burn in the microwave and it creates a nice, moist heat that is helpful for aching muscles.) Fiddle around with it to figure out how much you like, as too empty won’t keep the heat in as well and too full will be hard. I also add about 1/4 cup of dried lavender. You don’t have to, but it smells nice!

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Finally use a ladder stitch to close the hole up. I learned this stitch while fixing some stuffed animals that were torn. It is a great way to hide the hole and it honestly isn’t that hard, especially with this thick fabric. It takes about five minutes to learn from a few YouTube videos. I like this one:

 

Once you stitch it closed, you are finished!

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When you are ready to use it, heat it in the microwave about 45 seconds. Give it a shake, then heat another 20 seconds until it feels warm enough to soothe what ails you.

 

 

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Cutting the Clutter

This drives my husband crazy:

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It is the clutter spot in our kitchen. You may have a similar area where paper items are kept. Mail, bills, coupons; they have to sit somewhere while I am chasing the kids! You may know that I am not anyone’s definition of “organized.” That being said, I do like things to be organized. I just don’t often make it a priority. So a few weeks ago when my husband expressed his dislike of this particular clutter in the house, I said, “Okay, I will take care of it.” And I actually did! I cleared out a shelf of the cabinet that had extra coffee mugs. (We had two shelves of coffee mugs and he is the only one who drinks it.) Then, I scoured the internet (okay, I scoured Pinterest), for ideas to organize the stuff. I found two ideas that would work in the cabinet. One idea was using cereal boxes to make a paper organizer. I glued three cereal boxes together, then cut them at an angle to create my organizer.  IMGP7577

Next, I picked scrapbook paper that I liked and covered the box all around with it. I just used an Elmer’s craft glue-stick and it worked fine. I used a coordinating paper on the inside also.

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After I finished, I made some labels with card-stock and stuck them on with my favorite tool ever, my little glue dot roller. I figured they wouldn’t be hard to change that way.

The next idea I found was for making laminated pockets from the blog Organizing Home Life

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I thought this was such a great idea! I used 3M command strips to hang them instead of Velcro, because I didn’t have any Velcro.

So the finished cabinet included both of these, plus a small container for loose change, a pen holder that a friend made for me years ago (can covered in fabric), hooks for keys (they were already there), tape dispenser, pocket calendar, and pads of paper for jotting down notes.

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The categories I used for organizing all the paper: coupons, invitations, bills, receipts, To-Do Mike, and To-Do Priscilla.

And now the counter looks like this and my husband can bow down to my greatness.

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Ice Paint with Toddlers

My son’s 1st birthday party was a few weeks ago and I have yet to send the thank you notes. I may or may not have a thank you note love affair. Generally I feel that if someone gives you a gift, particularly at a time you did not get to speak with them and thank them properly (like at a party or if they send it), then you should send a thank you note! It doesn’t have to be fancy, just heartfelt. That doesn’t mean it can’t be fancy: I personally like fancy ones the best. Anyways. Toddlers can’t write their own thank you notes, but they can make something pretty to go on the thank you note. I wanted to have my son use finger paint for making these cards. It was a fail. He cried almost the whole time and just kept trying to crawl over to his big brother. A few days later I decided to try ice paint which I had seen on Pinterest (of course, where else.) I filled some leftover yogurt and applesauce containers with water and a few drops of gel food coloring. After an hour in the fridge I stuck in some wooden dowels. (After cutting them down by hand in the garage as the boys were sleeping. Yeah. That was an adventure.) I let them harden overnight and the next day had a successful ice painting session!

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I used painter’s tape to keep the paper in place on the high chair tray. (I used inexpensive watercolor paper, but any thicker paper would be fine.) Then, I pretty much gave my son the ice paint chunks and let him go. It was great because he is teething, so he loved chewing on them. Much less nerve-wracking than regular paint because eating it is safe!

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A week later I finally got around to turning the artwork into thank you notes. I cut the tape off and cut each piece into four separate pieces.

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I used patterned and plain cardstock to make cards and affixed the artwork to the cards. I also had some cute “Thank you” adornments hanging around and used them on a few cards.

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Now if I could just get all of them written, addressed, and mailed, my life would be complete.

 

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Embossed Birthday Card

I hate spending extra money on something that I can make just as well (or better) myself. I also tend to forget birthdays because I never pay attention to what the date is. (Which means I need to get a card ASAP.) As such, I have been making handmade birthday cards (and Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Anniversary, you name it, I’ve made it.) Since my boys were taking good naps today, I ran downstairs and made this super fun birthday card! (For my friend whose birthday was five days ago. I know; I’m terrible.)

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A few years ago, my mom gave me a light table and some embossing materials. She had them sitting in a drawer for a long time. I remember her using them one year to make our family Christmas cards. It would be great to use it to make Christmas cards, but we just have such a large family that it would take weeks to get them all made! Instead, I figured out how to make my own embossing plates! First, you will need some paperboard, preferably a bit thicker than a cereal box. You can also use an old plastic lid from a container like a sour cream container. Use a pencil or pen to write the image you would like to have. If you don’t want to write it out yourself, you could also print the words in bold using whatever font you like in a word processor.

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Next, use an x-acto knife to cut out the design you created. It takes some time and effort, but it is worth it because then you will have the image to easily emboss whenever you would like!

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Once your fingers are ready to fall off, you are probably finished.

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Put it on the light table (or a sunny window) upside down.

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Place your paper over the design. Make sure you have it lined up properly.

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Now, use the embossing stylus to press the design into the paper. Be careful not to press too hard or you may rip the paper. Once you have pressed with the embossing stylus, turn over your work and say “Ta-da!”

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You can leave it as is, paint it, or you can use some oil pastel to bring out the design as I did here.

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Now my card is ready to be mailed to my friend!

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Craft Space Makeover Reveal

My space has been ready in the basement for a few weeks and I have been enjoying it (mostly in the wee hours of the night!) I wanted to wait until I practiced using it to put all the little doodads in their final home. Now I know what items should be the easiest to access and what items can sit in a drawer or cupboard until the end of the world.

The old workbench in the basement covered in my craft junk

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We cleaned this whole area of the basement and used leftover paint from our bathroom remodels. We also used some water blocking primer on the concrete blocks. It looks 1,000 times better!

After

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Before

Before

Here you can see my wrapping station which my husband built for me at Christmas. It looked so nice that we just HAD to clean up the rest of the area! My mother-in-law gave me a great paper storage cart for my birthday, as well as a bunch of storage boxes.

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My doodads

My doodads

It’s great to have everything organized, but at the end of the day, this isn’t a prominent area of my house, so I didn’t care about having fancy containers. The silver cans are formula cans and the other containers are baby food jars and baby food containers. They are the perfect size for paper clips, brads, stick-on pearls, buttons, erasers, etc. This shelf was built into the counter. I had attempted to use this tension rod to hold ribbon in my closet upstairs, but it was too small. It was the perfect size for this shelf, though!

Ribbon holder from shelf and teeny tiny tension rod

Ribbon holder from shelf and teeny tiny tension rod

Fabric!

Fabric!

I needed a shelf for my fabric and this one was hanging out in our house holding soda of all things! It is actually an old, deep media cabinet. It ended up being a great shelf to fit my fabric. I just rolled it up and shoved it in! On top of the shelf is a small file holder with patterns, stickers, labels, etc. In addition to the wrapping station, my husband also got me this amazing chair from Wayfair. I used to sit on this stool that my friend painted for me in high school. It is still adorable, but not comfortable! I plan on sitting here for many projects, so I am glad that my new chair is comfortable! It is also on casters so that I can roll around like a ten-year old. Hopefully over the weekend I can get a little crafting to happen and share it with you!

New, comfortable, amazing, wonderful there-aren't-enough-adjectives-able chair

New, comfortable, amazing, wonderful there-aren’t-enough-adjectives-able chair

Old, adorable stool (Yes, that is Sleeping Beauty because she is the best: loves sleep, sings, and talks to animals. )

Old, adorable stool (Yes, that is Sleeping Beauty because she is the best: loves sleep, sings, and talks to animals.)

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Craft Space Makeover

Since we moved into our house about three years ago, my craft supplies have been scattered throughout the house. Some things were in the attic, the guest bedroom closet, and the basement. At one point I had things pretty well organized (for me, anyways) in the guest bedroom closet and desk, but after my youngest son’s arrival we moved the furniture around the rooms and ended up with the desk in our bedroom. That works for us in terms of using the printer, keeping records, and paying bills, but now I need a space to get my craft on. As I have been using my sewing machine in the basement, I’ve realized that it is an ideal, though not attractive, space for my purposes. It does not get too hot in summer or too cold in winter. The work bench that was there when we bought the house has good lighting, some storage, and is a good height. The kicker is that my husband built a wrapping station on the wall behind the workspace as a Christmas present! He also got me a new stool! This has inspired me not only to begin this blog about the various crafting and cooking projects I attempt, but also to give the rest of the space a makeover. I plan to begin by clearing EVERYTHING out, then clean the bench and shelves, paint, and finally reorganize my materials. Now for your viewing pleasure, the requisite before pictures!

One side of the upstairs closet

One side of the upstairs closet

The old workbench in the basement covered in my craft junk

The old workbench in the basement covered in my craft junk

Back wall of workbench in basement AND amazing shelves/wrapping spot

Back wall of workbench in basement AND amazing shelves/wrapping spot

Other side of the closet

Other side of the closet

Check back in a few days for the reveal!

~Pris

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